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Tom Pelphrey shares unbelievable story of big first with Kaley Cuoco

The Ozark star and the Flight Attendant actress are parents to baby Matilda

Ahad Sanwari
Ahad Sanwari - New York
Senior WriterNew York
August 16, 2023
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Tom Pelphrey and Kaley Cuoco have achieved a lot of firsts in their relationship – a first anniversary this April, first red carpet at last year's Emmys, and their first child with baby Matilda Carmine Pelphrey, born this March.

However, in a new interview with W Magazine as part of their TV stars portfolio, Tom, 41, opened up about how a different kind of first with Kaley, 37, taught him something unexpected.

The Ozark actor revealed that when he'd first started dating Kaley, he had no idea that she had starred in The Big Bang Theory, the CBS sitcom which ran for 12 years and made her a household name.

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The truth came out when the couple visited Tom's family for the first time. "When I first brought Kaley to New Jersey to meet my family and friends, my mom's partner – who apparently was a Big Bang Theory fan – was there, and he kept calling her Penny," Tom explained. 

"I had no clue what was going on. So I pulled Kaley aside, like, 'I'm sorry, I don't understand what's happening. Why does he keep calling you Penny?' She's like, 'That's my character in The Big Bang Theory.'"

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Tom continued: "I was completely unaware. I've watched a few episodes with her since, and, obviously, she's fantastic."

Kaley Cuoco and Tom Pelphrey attend the Los Angeles Premiere Of Max Original Limited Series "Love & Death"© Getty Images
Tom revealed that he had never watched "The Big Bang Theory" when he started dating Kaley

He defended himself, saying: "I hadn't seen Kaley in anything. Look, I live in a cave. Before I met Kaley, I was living in upstate New York, on a dirt road, in the middle of the woods, without much Wi-Fi. She's brought me into modern times."

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Kaley starred on the sitcom as Penny (whose last name is never revealed, a running gag) from 2007-2019, the drop-dead gorgeous neighbor to physicists Leonard and Sheldon who is street smart and outgoing.

The cast and crew of 'The Big Bang Theory' accept an award onstage during the People's Choice Awards 2017© Getty Images
Kaley played the role of Penny to acclaim and incredible ratings success

Her role in the series, in some ways, mimicked her off-screen life as well, as she and Johnny Galecki, who played love interest Leonard Hofstadter, dated privately for about two years after first meeting on the show.

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While they ended things in real life, remaining close friends and co-stars, their characters go through ups and downs before tying the knot and announcing her pregnancy by the end of the series. The role won Kaley a Critics' Choice Award and two People's Choice Awards.

"The Bad Fish Paradigm" -- After her first date with Leonard goes awry, Penny (Kaley Cuoco, right) finds an unwilling confidant in Leonard's anti-social roommate, Sheldon (Jim Parsons, left), on the second season premiere of THE BIG BANG THEORY, Monday, September 22 (8:00-8:30 PM, ET/PT) on the CBS Television Network© Getty Images
The series ran on CBS from 2007-2019

Like Penny, Kaley's currently in the midst of her own happy ending, doting over daughter Matilda with Tom, who shared more details of their life as parents.

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When asked who their newborn resembled more, he admitted: "I see myself a little bit in her. She's got one dimple on her left cheek, like I do. Other than that, though, I see Kaley. 

Kaley Cuoco's daughter Matilda Carmine Pelphrey celebrates her four-month birthday© Instagram
Tom also gushed about life as a dad to baby Matilda

"Kaley says she sees me, but when Matilda's kind of confused or frustrated about something, she makes these faces and I'm like, 'Oh my god, there's your mom.'"

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