True to their Hollywood nature, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have a years-in-the-making romance straight out of a movie script.
So ingrained is their romance in Hollywood history, that they've even been credited for popularizing portmanteau nicknames for couples, after their Jersey Girl director Kevin Smith officially coined them Bennifer (and the likes of KimYe, Brangelina, and Speidi followed).
However, much as they appeared destined to grow old together after reuniting 20 years after calling off their wedding, just two years after finally making it down the aisle, reports have swirled that there's tension in their marriage, leading netizens to wonder if the two are headed for divorce (which did come true, but read on for more of that...).
Below, take a trip down memory lane and revisit the actors' love story, from their first meeting, to the present day...
© GettyWhen Jen and Ben Met
Jennifer and Ben first met in early 2002, when they were cast in the romantic crime comedy Gigli –– which bombed at the box office when it was released the following year.
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At the time, the actress was married to her second husband, Cris Judd; their marriage lasted from 2001 to 2003, and came after her 11-month marriage to Cuban-born actor Ojani Noa, which ended in 1998.
© GettyFriends to Lovers
Jennifer officially filed for divorce from Cris in July of 2002, citing an early June separation in the documents, and she and Ben began dating shortly after.
During their first joint interview together in 2003 to promote Gigli, after they'd confirmed their romance, Dateline's Pat O'Brien asked when the two fell in love, to which Jennifer replied: "You can't pinpoint it! It was like, we became friends first, that is the honest to God truth."
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Ben added: "Yeah it is the truth. The scenes were really good," and Jennifer quipped: "It felt like we had good chemistry."
© GettyTheir "Traditional" Engagement
Ben proposed in November of 2002 with a six-carat pink diamond ring, and Jennifer later told Diane Sawyer of the proposal: "[It was] traditional, but also in a very spectacular way, as of course Ben would do it," adding: "It was very, very beautiful."
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© GettyTabloid Frenzy
The Bennifer romance peaked just as the Y2K tabloid frenzy did, and both of them have credited the intense scrutiny and speculation into their relationship as part of what led to their break-up.
During a January 2021 appearance on The Hollywood Reporter podcast, Ben recalled: "People were so [expletive] mean about her — sexist, racist. Ugly, vicious [expletive] was written about her in ways that if you wrote it now you would literally be fired for saying those things you said."
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Jennifer also reflected on their break-up during a recent interview with Variety promoting her semi-autobiographical film This Is Me… Now: A Love Story. "Our relationship crumbled under the weight of the pressure," she said, adding: "We lost a sense of ourselves, and we needed to separate because we didn't know how to survive it. I had to figure myself out, and he had to figure himself out."
© GettyWedding Postponed — and Called Off
In September of 2003, just days before they were set to tie the knot in Santa Barbara on Sunday, September 14, Jennifer and Ben issued a statement announcing they had decided to postpone the wedding. "Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date."
They even shared: "When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate 'decoy brides' at three different locations, we realized that something was awry."
"We began to feel that the spirit of what should have been the happiest day of our lives could be compromised [...] We felt what should have been a joyful and sacred day could be spoiled for us, our families and our friends."
© GettyThe Break Up
Jennifer and Ben initially briefly split right when they called off their wedding, and though they had made amends, they officially broke up in January of 2004.
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A rep for Jennifer said at the time: "Jennifer Lopez has ended her engagement to Ben Affleck. At this difficult time, we ask that you respect her privacy," with Ben's adding: "I am not going to confirm anything about his personal life. We don't want to get dragged into quicksand. Everybody wants a war. It's not happening from our side."
© InstagramGoing Their Separate Ways
In their almost 20 years apart, both of them married and/or dated different people, and had children of their own.
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Jennifer was married to Marc Anthony, with whom she welcomed twins Max and Emme, 16, from 2004 to 2014, while Ben was married to Jennifer Garner, with whom he welcomed kids Violet, 18, Fin, 15, and Samuel, 12, from 2005 to 2018. Jennifer was also briefly engaged to Alex Rodríguez, while Ben dated Ana de Armas.
© Getty ImagesThe Reunion
Though they reportedly remained friends through the years, Jennifer and Ben officially reunited romantically in April of 2021, when they were spotted spending time together on multiple occasions.
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That July, they went Instagram official when Jennifer shared a tribute to Ben in honor of his 52nd birthday, and in September, they made their second red carpet debut as a couple again during the Venice Film Festival.
© InstagramOfficial For Real
Ben proposed for a second time in April of 2022, one year after they first rekindled their romance. This time around, he proposed not with pink diamond but with a green, eight-carat diamond, one of the most rare diamond hues in the world.
Rather than a postponed wedding, of course, they had not one but two ceremonies, first with an impromptu Las Vegas wedding in July, followed by their official wedding weekend in Georgia in August.
Split Speculation
© Getty ImagesIn May and June of 2024, however, rumors and reports began swirling that the couple were having some trouble in their marriage. They were spotted leading their lives in completely opposite parts of the country and were rarely seen together.
The couple shied away from fueling the reports further, however. At one point, while promoting her film Atlas, when Jennifer was asked by a reporter about Ben and a potential divorce, she simply responded with: "You should know better," and declined to comment further.
The Divorce Heard 'Round the World
Their fairytale finally came crumbling down on August 21, 2024, when Jennifer arrived at the Los Angeles County Superior Court and filed divorce papers, officially declaring to the world that Bennifer was over (at least for now, hey, one can dream!).
Neither party has commented on the split so far, and they've maintained low public profiles since. Their date of separation was listed as April 26, nearly four months before making matters legal and official, and there is no prenup listed so far.
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© Getty ImagesMoving On?
Most recently, Ben was peppered with speculation that he had already moved on from his "On the Floor" singer ex with Kathleen "Kick" Kennedy, the daughter of former Presidential hopeful Robert F. Kennedy Jr., sparking talk on whether he'd already found a new love.
However, on August 27, that talk was shut down as well when Ben's rep shared a statement obtained by People which read: "There is no truth to any of it. I don't know if they even know each other." As of writing, the pair are prioritizing their personal projects and their kids.
