Ben Miller in Professor T© Eagle Eye Drama for ITV AND ITVX

Inside Ben Miller's home life, from famous ex-wife to family house in the Cotswolds

The actor has three children and lives in the Cotswolds with his wife Jessica Parker

Senior Features Writer
Updated: April 3, 2024

Ben Miller is back on our screens in a brand-new series of Professor T, in which he plays the titular criminologist. 

While we know Ben, 58, for his various TV roles in Death in Paradise, Primeval and Bridgerton, what about his life off-screen? Keep reading for all we know about his family life, including his famous ex-wife and his home in the countryside.

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When he's not busy filming for his latest TV role, Ben can be found at home in the Cotswolds with his family.

The actor is married to film producer Jessica Parker, who is the daughter of Alan Parker, a musician perhaps best known for his work on music for film and TV shows.

Ben Miller and his Jessica Parker in 2014© Jonathan Hordle/Shutterstock
Ben Miller married Jessica Parker in 2013

The couple got hitched in 2013 and have been happily married ever since. They welcomed their first son Harrison in 2011, and a daughter named Lana in 2015. 

Before Lana was born, the family relocated from London to Cirencester. Opening up about swapping the city for the countryside, Ben told The Telegraph: "We needed more room because our son, Harrison, who was three, was bouncing off the walls. I mean literally bouncing off the walls."

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Ben and Jessica live in the Cotswolds

He also described the inside of his family home as "fabulous", with a sitting room that "feels very Hollywood Regency".

"My wife has filled it with those weird gold pineapples they had in Hollywood in the 1920s," he revealed. "We also have a ridiculous music room with stuffed animals and a record player. I was probably missing Soho House too much."

Ben's famous first wife

Before he met Jessica, Ben was married to actress Belinda Stewart-Wilson. Belinda will be a familiar face to TV fans thanks to her role as Polly McKenzie in the hugely popular sitcom The Inbetweeners.

She's also starred in Stay Close, Sick Note, and alongside Ben in Primeval. The former couple tied the knot in 2004 before welcoming a son named Sonny in 2006. They divorced five years later in 2011.  

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Belinda Stewart-Wilson briefly starred alongside Ben in Primeval

Speaking about his relationship with Belinda after their split, Ben told The Guardian in 2010: "My wife and I have been separated for a while but we have an arrangement where Sonny spends half the time with me and half the time with her. 

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Belinda and Nick Frost in Sick Note

"I very much wanted the perfect nuclear family, and I came from the perfect nuclear family, but like so many people that isn't the way things have worked out. I'm very lucky in that Belinda and I are good friends."

Ben's personal connection to his role in Professor T

Ben previously spoke about why his role in Professor T is so important to him.

Speaking on This Morning in 2022, he said: "I've talked about this from the very beginning, I also have OCD, so when I came across this part, it was a very exciting moment for me to play this character. 

Like his character, Ben also has OCD

"My symptoms, I guess you could say, are very different and sort of present in different ways to the professor, and I also had cognitive behavioural therapy to help me, I suppose you could say, ameliorate [them].

"So for me, it's very emotional to play this character because he's completely unashamed. I was always very ashamed of my OCD, that's one of the reasons why I got the treatment, [Professor T] doesn't really care. He makes everyone else go along with every single tiny detail of his regime," he added. 

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