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Donna fears that the smooth Botox-ed look will become the only beauty standard to aspire to
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Why Botox isn’t part of my skincare routine

A 48-Year-Old Beauty Editor’s message to the next generation

Donna Francis
Contributing Editor US
42 minutes ago
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As a 48-year-old Beauty Editor, I’ve spent years surrounded by the newest skincare innovations and products and countless hours in some of the world’s leading aesthetic clinics. From lasers to peels, microneedling to dermaplaning - I’ve tested it all - but one thing I’ve never done is Botox. 

Admittedly, and especially now that I’m approaching 50 and my forehead wrinkles are getting deeper and more pronounced, I have been tempted to try it out.  The majority of my friends are doing it, and I’ll admit that I am often envious of their smooth-as-a-marble skin and lifted brows. 

It’s not that I’m against Botox. Far from it. But I do fear that the smooth Botox-ed look will become the norm - the beauty standard to aspire to. Especially now that so many young people are choosing to go down the Botox route. 

Donna hasn't had Botox yet
Donna hasn't had Botox yet

The problem with 'prejuvination'

‘Prejuvination’ is the ‘anti-aging’ trend amongst Gen Xers which involves taking up botox to stop wrinkles before they start. In fact, 27% of American patients receiving Botox last year were 34 or younger, compared with 21% in 2015, according to survey data from the American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery.  

Donna fears that the smooth Botox-ed look will become the only beauty standard to aspire to
© Prostock-studio
Donna fears that the smooth Botox-ed look will become the only beauty standard to aspire to

From very early on in my career, I’ve been passionate about inspiring people to feel happy and authentic in their skin. Encouraging them to embrace and be grateful for what they have - whether it’s wrinkles, freckles or a gap in their teeth. And this work led me to directing hundreds of unretouched photoshoots for a high street beauty brand that celebrated real skin - every wrinkle and pore remained unretouched, unfiltered.   

And as a mother of 2 teenagers, I have serious concerns that Gen X and Gen A are going to have a warped perspective on their self image, especially as they age. 

READ: The simple makeup trick that helps brigthen my 48 year old face 

I recently spoke to Chloe Combi, co-founder of The Respect Project, an organisation that helps support teenagers grappling with issues of self-esteem, body image and mental health  about my concerns. And she shared some scary facts including that in 2022, over 50k ‘tweakments’ like botox and filler, were carried out on under 18s in the UK, albeit mostly by unlicensed practitioners. 

Thanks to filters and imagery on social media Gen X and Gen A have a distorted view of what real skin looks like © Xavier Lorenzo
Thanks to filters and imagery on social media Gen X and Gen A have a distorted view of what real skin looks like

Chloe, who is a renowned expert on Gen X and Gen A social issues, admits that helping the younger generation “feel better about their looks, bodies, well-being and mental health” is “one of the most important and necessary challenges we currently face.” 

As The Respect Project continues to grow, it has caught the attention of beauty leaders and this year, Cult Beauty announced its role as the founding sponsor of the initiative, signaling a positive shift in how the beauty industry approaches issues of self-image and mental health among young people.

Distorted self-awareness

The problem is that Gen Z and Gen A have become so used to staring at themselves on video calls, through filters, Tik Tok and Instagram reels that it has affected their self image. And this distorted self awareness has not gone unnoticed by experts and plastic surgeons either. 

“I get younger patients complain to me almost daily about the ‘wrinkles’ they see when they look at themselves on their phone,” explains Dr. Jimmy C. Sung, a Board-Certified Plastic & Reconstructive Surgeon and Medical Director of Tribeca Aesthetics in New York City. “And sometimes they get angry with me when I say that I cannot see any problems. It’s not reality and I’m worried that they are never going to be happy.”  

Gen X and Gen A have a distorted view of what real skin looks like © Ruslan Malysh
Botox isn't the only route to healthy and glowing skin

Botox is like Tylenol

For those who swear by Botox, I totally get it as it can give you great results when used correctly. But we need to educate the younger generation that it’s also not the route to healthy and glowing skin! 

“Botox works like Tylenol masking a fever - it never addresses the cause of the fever,” Dr. Sung explains. “Sunscreen and stimulating the fibroblasts are key to generating collagen and elastin and that’s where the beauty of non-invasive, regenerative treatments like lasers comes into play.” 

“We can use sound, light, radiofrequency, or plasma energy to stimulate the fibroblast cells that produce collagen and elastin. These treatments don’t rely on toxins or chemicals. Instead, they stimulate your body’s natural healing process.”

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Benefits of energy treatments 

Dr. Sung described energy treatments like a ‘workout for the skin’. “Every time you go to the gym, your body gets microtraumas, and those microtraumas trigger the process of regeneration. It’s the same with energy devices—they cause microtraumas to your skin, which prompt your body to produce more collagen and elastin. The real result shows up in two to three months when the new collagen is fully formed.”

For me, at 48, I’m happier focusing on keeping my skin healthy and strong with these kind of regenerative treatments, and yes - plenty of SPF. I recently had Sofwav and loved the way it made my skin glow - I’ve had many compliments about it too. 

And while I’ll never say never, for now I’m staying Botox free. I want to show my kids, their friends and the next generation that it’s OK for skin to have some flaws and wrinkles. 

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