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Ryan Reynolds makes surprising statement about parenting four children with Blake Lively

The Deadpool actor is using his struggles with his mental health to his advantage

Jenni McKnight
US Lifestyle Editor
May 30, 2024
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Ryan Reynolds has made no secret of his struggles with anxiety – but he's now using his mental health challenges to his advantage. 

The Deadpool actor, 47, has revealed that his anxiety struggles have enabled him to be a better parent to his four children with Blake Lively: James, nine, Ines, seven, Betty, four, and their one-year-old (whose name has not been revealed). 

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Speaking to his Deadpool & Wolverine co-star Hugh Jackman in the latest issue of People, Ryan admitted that having anxiety makes him a "better" dad. 

"I think it makes it better because your focus is less on yourself and more on your kids. I know you know that too," Ryan said to Hugh, who admitted he has moments of anxiety. 

"Now I love that I have anxiety, I love that I've had anxiety," he continued. 

"Because when I see my kids experiencing some of that, which is probably genetic, I know how to address it in a way that is compassionate, that actually allows them to feel seen." 

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Blake and Ryan share four children

He added: "I know that I can't just fix it. And I can communicate all that stuff to them and with them. I'm always grateful for it." 

It's not just his family life that Ryan feels benefits from his anxiety, but his professional life too.

"My job benefits greatly," he said. "People who have anxiety are constantly thinking into the future. You're constantly, 'What if this happens? What if that happens?' You're always telling yourself stories. 

HOLLYWOOD, CA - DECEMBER 15:  Actors Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively with daughters James Reynolds and Ines Reynolds attend the ceremony honoring Ryan Reynolds with a Star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame on December 15, 2016 in Hollywood, California.  (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic) Actors Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively with daughters James Reynolds and Ines Reynolds attend the ceremony honoring Ryan Reynolds with a Star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame on December 15, 2016 in Hollywood, California.© Getty Images
Blake and Ryan have yet to share their fourth child's name

"So when we're shooting Deadpool & Wolverine, I'm not just shooting the movie, I'm also sitting in the audience as a cautious critic going, 'I don't like that. I don't buy that.'" 

He added: "So anxiety creates that ecosystem of awareness that I wouldn't otherwise [have]." 

Ryan first opened up about his struggles with anxiety in February 2022 during an appearance on CBS's Sunday Morning

Hugh Jackman and Ryan Reynolds attend The Adam Project World Premiere at Alice Tully Hall on February 28, 2022 in New York City.© Getty Images
Ryan spoke to Hugh Jackman about parenting with anxiety

"I've had anxiety my whole life really and you know, I feel like I have two parts of my personality. That one takes over when that happens," he said. 

Recalling how his anxiety would intensify before appearances on talk shows, he explained: "I remember I'd be standing backstage before the curtain would open. 

"And I would think to myself, 'I'm gonna die. I'm literally gonna die here. The curtain's gonna open and I'm just gonna be a symphony of vomit.' Just, like, something horrible's gonna happen!" 

Ryan Reynolds attends a fan screening of "Deadpool" at The Soho Hotel on January 28, 2016 in London, England© Getty Images
Ryan meditates to help his anxiety

Despite his panic, Ryan admitted that "as soon as that curtain opens… this little guy takes over" which helps him manage his anxiety.

"And he's like, 'I got this. You're cool,' he said. "I feel, like, my heart rate drop and my breathing calm, and I just sort of go out and I'm this different person. And I leave that interview going, 'God, I'd love to be that guy!'"

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Ryan and Blake prefer to keep their kids out of the spotlight

In October, Ryan revealed how he sometimes uses meditation to manage his mental health when he finds himself spinning "out of control".

"I certainly have my own little rituals and those kinds of things that help me stay grounded and keep my mind from spinning out of control," he said at Bring Change to Mind's annual Revels & Revelations Gala. 

Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds attend the premiere for "A Quiet Place" at AMC Lincoln Square Theater on April 2, 2018 in New York City© Getty Images
Ryan and Blake married in 2012

"Sometimes I'm really good at it, sometimes I'm not," he added. 

"I tend to overbook myself when I'm spiraling that way. I'm sort of aware of that stuff and I manage it as well as you can."

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