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Susan Downey and Robert Downey Jr. attend "McNeal" opening night at Lincoln Center Theater starring Robert Downey Jr. on September 30, 2024 in New York City© Getty Images

Robert Downey Jr. and wife Susan Downey reveal relationship dynamic and make confession about pre-teen son Exton

The Iron Man star and his wife are acting as co-producers on the new Broadway hit McNeal

Ahad Sanwari
Ahad Sanwari - New York
Senior WriterNew York
October 17, 2024
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Robert Downey Jr. is capping off his banner year with a foray to the stage, making his Broadway debut earlier this month with the new show McNeal.

The show has already attracted considerable buzz, especially thanks to its many celebrity attendees, with opening night alone boasting the likes of Matt Damon, Paul Rudd, Justin Theroux and more.

The actor, 59, and his wife Susan Downey, 50, also act as co-producers on the show, which is produced in part by Team Downey, the entertainment company the couple run together.

They sat down with Vogue to discuss their professional partnership and their misgivings about Artificial Intelligence, which happens to be a key part of the play written by Ayad Akhtar.

"Computers are stupid!" the Oscar-winning actor declared, saying he doesn't believe AI is as much of a threat as people make it out to be. "It still feels like what I thought computers were able to do 20 years ago. It's not that good. If it was very good, then we wouldn't be scared. We would be [expletive] replaced."

Robert Downey Jr. and Susan Downey attend "McNeal" opening night at Lincoln Center Theater starring Robert Downey Jr. on September 30, 2024 in New York City© Getty Images
Robert stars in the new Broadway play "McNeal," which Susan is also a producer on

Susan explained that she was the one who first got hold of and read the script, convincing her husband to take on the project, in which he plays lead Jacob McNeal. "I was personally drawn in by the character of McNeal and the exploration that he's going on: personal mortality, professional mortality in the same moment."

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However, Susan is also just as skeptical as her husband is about AI, even jokingly referring to their son Exton's capabilities with tech. "I just hope my son learns it first so when I have questions he can show me," she said. 

Saisha Talwar, Rafi Gavron, Melora Hardin, Robert Downey Jr., Andrea Martin, Brittany Bellizeare, and Ruthie Ann Miles pose onstage at "McNeal" opening night at Lincoln Center Theater starring Robert Downey Jr. on September 30, 2024 in New York City© Getty Images
The actor is making his Broadway debut in the new play

Robert and Susan share the 12-year-old Exton and his younger sister, nine-year-old Avri. The Oppenheimer star is also a dad to 31-year-old Indio Falconer Downey, a musician, with ex Deborah Falconer.

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Susan also explained some of the dynamics of their professional relationship, admitting that many of the projects they sign on to produce (HBO's The Sympathizer, The Orphan, and upcoming remake of Vertigo) is often based on instinct.

Robert Downey Jr.'s sn Exton in a family photo shared on Instagram© Instagram
"I just hope my son learns it first so when I have questions he can show me."

"We don't sit back with some formula or master plan," she confessed. "We look for material that feels like we haven't seen it before. You want that element of scariness, that you're in new territory."

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While the couple usually reside in California with their children, they've shifted base to New York for a few months for the run of the show, and Robert gushed about how much he loved returning to the city he was born and worked a considerable amount in.

The playbill at the opening night of Lincoln Center Theater's "McNeal" on Broadway at The Vivian Beaumont Theater on September 30, 2024 in New York City© Getty Images
The play is written by Ayad Akhtar and directed by Bartlett Sher

"It's great to be back. I don’t have to do much of a reckoning with my past in New York or my beginnings in theater or my time on Saturday Night Live before I went careening into the '80s and just was a total mess," he says, referencing his past struggles with addiction. "The fact that I'm here doing this with you and we're able to discuss it in a pretty cogent way today means that the perspective has already been made."

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