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Macaulay Culkin attends the 2024 Academy Museum Gala at Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on October 19, 2024 in Los Angeles, California© FilmMagic

Macaulay Culkin addresses where he stands with 'abusive' father Kit Culkin: 'He deserves it'

The Home Alone star, who shares two sons with Brenda Song, has not spoken to his dad in 30 years

Beatriz Colon
Beatriz Colon - New York
New York WriterNew York
March 31, 2025
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Macaulay Culkin's complicated childhood gave him some important lessons for when he became a parent himself.

Though the Home Alone actor experienced glitz and glamor at an early age thanks to his child stardom, he also had a notoriously difficult relationship with his father, Christopher "Kit" Culkin.

And though the two remain estranged to this day, the former stage actor still was a source of parenting inspiration for his son — though not in the way you would think.

Macaulay Culkin and father Kit Culkin attend 17th Annual People's Choice Awards on March 11, 1993 at Paramount Studios in Hollywood, California© Getty
Macaulay with his father at the 17th Annual People's Choice Awards in 1993

Macaulay, speaking on Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson's podcast Sibling Revelry, confessed: "One of my earliest memories of him was [thinking], 'When I grew up, this is how I'm not gonna be with my kids.'"

The former child star started quietly dating Brenda Song in 2017, and they were confirmed to be engaged in early 2022. The couple welcomed their first child, son Dakota, in April of 2021, followed by another son, Carson, born in 2022.

Macaulay further shared that his strained relationship with his father was at the top of his mind when he himself became a father.

Macauley Culkin for the American Comedy Awards in Hollywood with father Kit Culkin 1991© Getty Images
The Home Alone actor in 1991

"Now that I have kids of my own, it's like, you know, it kicks up some dust,” he said, adding: "I kinda go, you know, like, I can't believe he was like that. He had all these lovely kids. It's crazy."

In addition to Macaulay, Kit, 80, also shared Shane, Dakota, who passed away in 2008, Kieran, Quinn, Christian, and Rory with Macaulay's mother Patricia Brentrup, whom he was with from 1974 to 1995. He was also a dad to the late Jennifer Adamson, who passed away in 2000, with Adeena VanWagoner.

Patricia Brentrup and her youngest son Rory Culkin walk on the set of the film "Smack In The Kisser" March 25, 2002 in New York City© Getty Images
Macaulay's mom with his brother Rory in 2002

Back in 2018, speaking on Marc Maron's podcast WTF, Macaulay described his father as "mentally and physically" abusive and "jealous" of him, and claimed he made threats such as: "Do good or I'll hit you."

kieran culkin as a child with mom dad and brother macaulay culkin© News UK Ltd/Shutterstock
The Culkins in 1990

"Everything he tried to do in life, I excelled at before I was ten-years-old," he added at the time. In 1994, Macaulay sued both of his parents to remove them as his legal guardians, and block them from controlling his trust fund, which at the time was reportedly worth between $15 and $20 million.

Macaulay, 44, further revealed on Sibling Revelry that he hasn't talked to his father in about three decades, and maintained: "Oh, he deserves it too. Yeah. He's a man who, he had seven kids, and now he has four grandkids. Yeah. And, none of them want anything to do with him."

Macaulay Culkin, Brenda Song and Dakota Song Culkin attend the ceremony honoring Macaulay Culkin with a Star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame© Amy Sussman, Getty
Macaulay with his fiancée Brenda and their son Dakota in 2023

Reiterating his previous claims that his father was both "abusive" and "narcissistic," he noted: "I have more than an inkling that he does not feel that way," as far as having done anything wrong.

And though Kit has largely retreated from the spotlight, in 2018, he did give a rare statement to the Daily Mail, maintaining: "I don't consider [Macaulay] a son anymore."

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